Unwinding Life

Ma said eat good food, takes care of your health, pa said study hard gets you in good place in life.. both said be humble; there are more achievers in this world than u think you are.. both said dont be harsh on your words; be patient.. both said dont lie especially to your loved ones.. 

What lifes experience says:

*Apparently taking care of your helath is luxury

*Studying hard and getting good rank is not enough

*Humble is seen as low self esteem 

*U need to be harsh sometimes to show ur worth

*Lying is common to keep up the relationships! 

Growing old by age and not knowing the social tactics is the biggest weakness in ones life.. 

Tact is the perfect blending of our principles and lifes experiences.. Use tact to have these:

*Health- physical and mental wellbeing is basic necessity to lead a peaceful life

*Hardwork is continues process to reap the benefits

*Be humble to worthy people.. 

*Enduring insult is not necessary.. its ok to be harsh if the situation demands.

*Lying maintains relationship only temporarily!

Stay peaceful, stay happy! 

Dr.(mrs.)Shalini GT

PARENTHOOD

Life in itself is one way travel. Parenthood is one such big mile stone in ones life and it's truly a blessing in this generation more than ever. The journey of parenthood starts with the moment the pregnancy test is positive which many of us dont accknowledge. Every cell, every tissue forming in the womb is guided by lot of factors which includes, diet, habits and many other environmental factors. The backbone of a childs life is the design of parents life structure.. Parenthood brings in lot of changes in ones life.. Its a great leap from carefree fun-filled life to more responsible, futuristic mindset. Every child teaches us what our parents tried and failed to teach us.. Every child reflects us like life size mirror; sometimes brings us joy and happiness and sometimes gives us realisation about ourselves. All parents want best for our kids, best food habits, best scorer, best looks, etc,. basically perfect child.. Unfortunately we forget that they are our outcome. We are not perfect, how will our outcome be perfect! So if we parents dont bring life style changes for good, there is very less probability child will learn on their own. Many a times we have our own drawbacks and hide from the child not knowing that child can notice more than what we think they can. Dont u think we all have at least some vivid memories of our childhood and all of us as a kid have observed a lot about adults. Though we could not fugure out the exact judgements, we remember the scenarios for sure. However when we become parents, we forget kids observe, and that they dont verbalise everything, but they observe!
Let us be good parents not by buying everything they demand but instilling the value of worth, the value of money.
Let us be good parents by becoming good and wise persons and not by becoming a jealous cunning person.
Let us be good parents by setting our own goals rather comparing our child with other child!
Let us be good parents by NOT fulfilling all the wishes of child, that way child will learn the difference between wish and need. Let the child understand that its not parents duty to fulfill all his dreams, he/she has to put some effort for his own dreams!
Let us be open to learning continuously, so that child knows degree (of qualifications) and learning are not same!
Let us be good parents by becoming good children to our parents, so that our child learns how to treat his/her parents!
Let us be good parents by having a honest relationship with each other so that child learns the value of honesty in a relationship!
Let us be good parents by having some empathy, so that child learns to see others pain!
Let us be good parents by taking care of ourselves so that child learns to take care of themselves!
Let us be good parents to our kids not because we are doing them a big favor but because it's our duty to be!
Lets try to modify our lives for the better future of world! because ONCE A PARENT ALWAYS A PARENT!

Perio as my love..

Well, although Periodontics was never my primary career option, right now am in love with this branch, not for its immunology or for its genetics but because of those surgeries for which am addict of.
As my Guide (Dr.Aruna) says- ''Surgery is addiction''!
once u start doing periodontal surgeries, ur in love with them...
Trust me it has happened with me..

It all started when i started my 1st periodontal surgery in the month of march 2009. My 1st incision was internal bevel, 1st quandrant, from 14 to 17. I had no fear when i was asked to do this by Dr.Vinayak who was guiding my surgery. Although i was very anxious, apprehensive and pretty excited and some kind of relief like - ah i finally started with my own periodontal surgery after 1 year of hand and ultrasonic scaling root planings!

The day was a big day for me, i felt like i achieved something, i celebrated that evening by calling and sharing it with my parents, brother and friends. Apparently my parents and brother didnt have slightest idea what i was talking about, but it was really sweet of them that they shared my happiness politely and encouraged me.

I was too excited about doing these surgeries, piled up numerous cases and also created a record maximum no: of surgeries for one of the following month among all the PGs in the department.

Also after couple of surgeries i got a compliment that among 1st surgeries within my batch, mine was the best..oooh, that just made me soo light that i was top of world..

The days went on, did various distomolar surgeries, papilla preservation flaps, bone grafting, GTR membrane placement, continuous sutures, anchor sutures, horizontal and vertical mattress sutures- which were just in various pages of Carranza until i did..